_Billionaire J. Paul Getty Sr. said, " A man may fall many times, but he isn't a failure until he begins to blame somebody else". Blaming is a low state because history is unchangeable and goes nowhere -it's already happened.Instead, ask costructively, "How did I profit from this failure ?" "What did I learn ?" "How can I build a highway, or system, around that quicksand so it won't entrap me again?" Questioning must be done cooly, unemotionally, remorselessly.The moment blame is attached, it clings like a parasite, issues become muddled, and the benefits of High state of Profit from experience melt away_
EVERY HIGH STATE HAS A CORRESPONDING LOW STATE, A VICE VERSA, A YIN AND YANG:THE ANTHITHESIS OF THE LOW STATE OF BLAMING IS THE HIGH STATE OF TAKING RESPONSABILITY
